SUITORS NOW PREFER OUR MAIDS TO OUR DAUGHTERS FOR MARRIAGE
Why not?
When
we devote time in training the maids on how to cook well, how to clean
the house and on good mannerisms while leaving our own daughters
untrained.
We overwork the maids and they adjust with equanimity because they need us to survive.
The
maids turn out to manage the indignation and insolence we and our
children subject them to. All these make the maids better wives who can
manage even the angriest of men.
Our precious
daughters are pampered through nursery and primary schools. They speak
the English we want and know all the cartoon slangs by heart. We beat
the maids blue black if they ever ask our girls to help out in domestic
duties. They see kitchen things as maids' things.
The
girls move from boarding schools to the university, do their NYSC,
Masters and get a job. Of course, they are ripe for marriage and you
wish that to happen soon.
From one
relationship to another, the same story. The guys would parade and dump
them. They are only good in bed, outings, clubs and red carpet
functions.
The boys de-commit when they notice
that the possible wife cannot cook, arrange things and are very
domestically untrained. The rich guys can manage as they would mitigate
the handicap by hiring a domestic help. Not all guys can afford this for
a start.
The upcoming and very sensitive guys
who would make good husbands, fathers and leaders would not manage
these parents' inflicted shortcomings. They would settle for well
trained ones. They know the value and the pride in hosting friends at
home to delicious delicacies prepared by a wife.
My
friends love eating the food my wife makes. My wife's proficiency in
culinary matters and the joy she exudes in cooking different dishes for
me has made me to stop eating outside. I tell people that as a titled
man, that I'm forbidden to eat outside but I know the truth- no food can
taste any better than my wife's. I'm also convinced that my addiction
is not juju-inspired. It would have expired by now. We are married for
16 years+.
Not all your maids would remain
your servants for ever. Some of them would finally do part-time studies
and like a train, get to their God ordained destinations sooner or
later.
Like a perfume, good guys perceive well
trained wife materials from afar and dump the daughters of the
bourgeois like hot iron. Long time happiness in at stake. No explanation
is given. Sometimes, the sack message is made through a social medium.
Let
your daughters learn what you teach your maids to make them compete for
the few available good men if marriage is important to them. There are
few guys who believe that marriage is for better for worse.
Don't
be deceived; love is an active verb. Yes it is. You love; you loved;
and you used to love. You can also hate who you used to love. Therefore,
some men are immune to pre-marital love blindness.
In practice, love can't cover the stench of bad early formation of our daughters.
Right
now, educated former maids are now cornering better men on offer
because they possess the requisite or set skills the highly perceptible
and ready husband materials need.
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